For quick clarification, THE COSTANZA – it's not about
building a small shelf in your desk so you can sleep ( that would be awesome
though…)
It's about making drastic changes in your approach or procedures to
help create changes in outcome.
In Seinfeld, season 5 episode 22, George Costanza makes a decision that he
will do everything opposite what he has been doing in order to try to get
better result at work, dating, etc... To test this out, he walks up to a girl
and says“ Hello, My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my
parents." He gets the date.
The
basic idea of The Costanza is that if what you are doing isn’t working try
doing some thing different or the opposite.
Albert Einstein once said “the
definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different
results". So, If what your doing isn't working, change it!!! Maybe do something opposite of what you have
been doing might help you take a step forward toward your goals instead of
doing what you have been doing and spinning in place.
If what your have been saying to your prospective clients is not working--change it drastically !
If you been coming in early is not helping you get what you need done, try staying a bit late.
If, in your personal life, you are meeting "the wrong people"--try going someplace new and doing something you wouldn’t normally do.
If you been coming in early is not helping you get what you need done, try staying a bit late.
If, in your personal life, you are meeting "the wrong people"--try going someplace new and doing something you wouldn’t normally do.
Not
getting through to your staff with compassion, try a swift kick in the ass. Or
vice-versa...
Basically, if your experience has told you to always do “XYZ” try "YXZ" or "ZYX" or "MRZ"...
At best, it may help you find a new ways to get closer to
your goals and develop different skills, meet different people, and learn something new. Worst case
scenario is you make a few calls, do a few meetings, or change your day or
style for awhile and some of the monotony of your day has been broken up and you got some good stories to tell about
how crazy you are ...
Reversal
: Don’t Pull the Constanza it if what your doing is successful !
Also,
give it some time to work. Maybe try doing the opposite for an
hour a day for a few weeks .. Give it a real college try and be consistent for.
Don’t
be afraid of being a bit uncomfortable for awhile. If it was too comfortable
for you to do at first then your probably not doing it right. Understand that
there are many ways for us to try to secure the results we want. As you develop
different techniques while doing The Constanza , you will be able to pull from
those skill at the appropriate time .
That being said , if
your unemployed, bald, short, and living
with your parents – and you wanna date the hot girl… you should probably not
expect George’s results – if you get one date after asking 500, you're doing great…
Have some specific ways you want to pull The Constanza in
your marketing, business, or personal life ?
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